I grew up in two completely different worlds at the same time. At home, I had a traditional Afghan upbringing, especially when it came to love, affection and romantic relationships. Outside, I lived a Westernized double life. That had a profound impact on my life, my mental health and especially my romantic relationships.

I’ve lived, studied and worked in different countries, including the UK, Singapore, India, Malaysia, Germany and Switzerland.

I’ve always had a vision of helping others find happiness and love regardless of their race, colour, religion, sexual orientation or the obstacles in their lives.

In my humble opinion, one of the most beautiful things in life is to love someone deeply and, at the same time, feel wanted, accepted and loved — JUST THE WAY WE ARE.

My whole life, I’ve been searching for happiness, love and the feeling of being wanted, valued and good enough. In my fantasy, being in love felt like the most beautiful feeling in the world. It felt and smelled like freedom, summer, sunshine and butterflies in my tummy. Like feeling fully alive. I craved that warm feeling.

But reality was often the complete opposite. Still, I’ve always been an unwavering optimist who simply loves L.O.V.E. I never gave up on finding that kind of love.

From a young age, I developed a deep fascination with human psychology and helping people. I combined my own lived experiences with my studies in positive psychology and coaching psychology.

I became an On and Off Relationship Expert & Coach, backed by a Master of Science (MSc) in Positive Psychology and Coaching Psychology — because, at the end of the day, I simply love L.O.V.E.

Today, I can look back and say that some of the darkest chapters of my life — my depressive periods, my breakdowns and the years I spent caught in two long-term ON. OFF. relationships, including one that lasted almost twelve years — became some of my greatest teachers. I would never wish the pain on anyone, but those experiences transformed me and helped shape the person I am today.

And now, I want to use what I’ve learned — personally and professionally — to help others transform their own lives.